Thursday, October 12, 2006

Wish and hope during Ramadhan

Ramadhan come and go each year with different memory and experience, and this year is nothing less, it is even better than before.Last two years when we attended Iftar with a bunch of friends, the scenario and ambience were different, there were time where there was a deep uneasy feeling, feeling left out especially when other people were busy introducing their pregnant wife or busy managing their kids on the table. That bonus question was something that I don't like people to ask me coz I don't have the answer, all I could say was, 'Its God's Will'..most of the time I just sailed along and forget about just being 2 instead of 3 or more...

And today at the table I try not to hear the same question again being asked to other woman and I try not be the centre of attention. Pregnancy is the second best thing after marriage and we can't avoid all the attention, praise, greet and question from people around us but I can't bear looking at the other women who still trying for years and one who just finished her second cycle of medication.Coz I've been there......I know how it feels

The journey isn't smooth as we expected, some people will get it as they wish but some have to wait and still waiting. What makes me strong each day through out this rough journey is the thought that God will grant my wish sooner or later, and having a supportive partner and family are essential. I remember buying books of 'How To..'and never miss Discovery or Nat.Geographic channel on this topic and of course this simple programme - Anita, where they featured HRH Tengku Puan Pahang who had the same experience, I even wait for the repeat just to see her face and listen to her courage. There was one article about her and the TAFF in Prestige Magazine and I read the section not twice but many many times just to give my self, support, motivation and courage and stop grieving but appreciate Life coz they are people out there who are even worst.

For these women I hope they will be stronger and may their wish come true and never stop dreaming and asking from Him especially during this Ramadhan.

(Last week during Iftar hubby told me that last year at the same chair in our dining room he prayed for this Gift..and this year his wish has been granted, I almost cried when I heard about it)

16 comments:

ufukhati said...

The best and the most beautiful words are : ALHAMDULILLAH.

This Ramadhan is becoming smaller in size and bigger in "pahala".

I enjoy reading your feelings. Best regards to you and family and SELAMAT MENYAMBUT IDULFITRI.

Maaf Zahir Batin.

anggerik merah said...

Wish Ramadhan bring you the greatest happinest.

You take care!

Nong said...

Syukur Alhamdulillah for the gift from HIM and the joy it brings to both you and huby...

Take care.

sue said...

Pak Darma and Anggerik,
This Ramadhan is so meaningful and I should never forget to thank Him..

Selamat Menyambut AidiLfitri


Kak Nong,
the best gift for this ramadhan, thank you and Selamat Menyambut Aidilfitri

simah said...

Salam Aidilfitri to u n ur Hubby..n ur little one..next year anak u insyaAllah dapat duit raya la yea? ..ker mak pak dia ka yg kutip duit raya? *wink*..

─░ndeed this year is a wonderful journey for you n ur hubby...Alhamdulillah ur waiting has been granted by the almighty..Balik kampung nanti jangan lupa makan ketupat on our behalf..... :0)

Maaf Zahir Batin..Salam Aidilfitri dari kami di sini..

n thank u too for ur friendship..:0) (mcm i takkan sempat balas email u ja)

Have a HAPPY HAPPY RAYA!!

thewailer said...

Wish you and your family a Happy Ramadhan! :)

anggerik merah said...

Sue dear,

Selamat hari raya adilfitri to you, hubby and the little one.

Take care

mobbeire said...

assalamualaikum sue

salam aidil fitri to u , hubby and little one
tahun ni kali pertama tak beraya dan puasa dgn mak abah adik adik semua ... sob.. sob ...
semoga ramadhan tahun ini amalan kita diterima dan diberkati olehNya... insyallah

maaf zahir batin !

Kak Teh said...

Salam aidil fitri to you and family and Alhamdulillah! Last month I met the Tengku Ampuan Pahang - yes, a wonderful and remarkeable lady!! Such an inspiration to all!
Am happy for both of you - kak teh

simah said...

sue..lama nya u balik kampung....

sue said...

Simah,
it is a great journey but with many obstacles, Selamat Hari Raya

TW,
Same to you, Salam Aidilfitri

sue said...

AM,
Salam Aidilfitri utk u diperantauan.

Mobb,
thanx, this year dapat makan lemang tak?

Kak Teh,
Salam Aidilfitri to you too, she's such a great lady

sue said...

Simah :-)
i'm back .....will come out with new piece soon

ZLAA said...

Assalamulaikum

How come today I met many new blogs from mamas from Alor Setarq? Anyway, nice blog you have. Keep writing.
http://www.zlaa.blogspot.com

mobbeire said...

erkkk .. alhamdulillah
hari raya nih dapat merasa lemang ... mcmana dapat ?
biarlah rahsiaaaa ... ehehe

sue said...

zlaa,
thanx for making it here


mobb,
mana dapat lemang?..kau paksa didi bakar lemang ke?ke all the way from johor